Many young people out of ignorance have ended up getting intimate and having affair’s with the wrong partners. Today we shall only dwell on Men . Below are some of the keypoints to watch out as a young Man before entering into any serious relationship.
Watch Out
When any starts to look sexy and physically attractive to you.
When you start noticing how curvy she is,how her lips look succulent and how her body bounces when she walks.
When you crave her presence ,and miss her absence badly.
When you call her late at night Just to hear her voice,or video call her Just to see her face .
thats when your ego is now headed towards the express.
TAKE ACTION.
Just because she’s matured,well mannered,wife material,that doesn’t mean you should convert her from a FRIEND to Wifey when you have no conviction/leading to do so. Don’t send any mixed signals to any female freinds ,dont call her “My Love,Baby, Sweetheart”and avoid using “I Love you” for a freind,she may take it literally.
She’s your freind,not your wife, don’t ask her to wash your clothes for you, don’t misuse the influence you have over her,turn her down if she volunteers to come to your place to do house chores for you.
Those are just some of the key points to put in mind before entering into serious relationship before being entangled into marriage disasters in future.
DO YOU FEEL LOVED?
PART ONE
” Each person has a primary love language that we must learn to speak if we want that person to feel loved “. Some of the acts include;having quality time , good physical touch , receiving gifts among others .
You can can even notice your complaints to your partner,which reveal where you need more expression of your love language .
Am sure most of you could be asking yourselves how would your partner like to express love to you? Don’t worry i have the Right answer to that .
One of them is ;
VERBAL EXPRESSION
Verbal expressions are vital to feeling loved . But all of us need to hear word’s that are loving , tender ,sexy and affirming words . Some people feel uncomfortable verbalizing inner emotions but reveal intimacy creating a safe bubble for the two of you , hence expressing your deepest feeling without fear or shame .
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please follow for part two. Ishmael Ngatia (talk) 09:23, 5 June 2022 (UTC)